You may have an idea what some of the most obvious erogenous

Learn How to Squirt: A Step-by-Step Guide by Our Sex Experts

You can find it by reaching into the vagina (with a sex toy like a vibrator or a finger) while angling up in the direction of your belly. Winston suggests bearing down with your abdominal and pelvic floor muscles as you feel an orgasm approaching. While squirting may produce more fluid than female ejaculation or regular sexual arousal, it’s not always enough to soak the bed sheets. Everyone’s body is different and will produce varying amounts of liquid. Like many things, this is often exaggerated in porn and may not reflect your own sexual experience. Squirting refers to a specific type of fluid that’s released from the urethra (where you pee from) during sex [1].

There are articles proclaiming that they can teach you how to do it, along with forums and blog posts questioning if squirting even real. Around 10% to 40% of females experience squirting during orgasm either regularly or occasionally. However, as there have been few large-scale studies, this may not be accurate. This position can make it easier for the penetrative partner to hit the G-spot.

When asked why how to squirt, women are significantly more likely to give reasons such as lack of interest and discomfort with their body. You would want to make sure that the whole process of making a woman squirt is as comfortable as it can get. So, for that, using lubricants will be a key thing. The basic thing would be to use a water-based lubricant rather than a silicone-based one as it will be better for the skin. “Just pressing the firm tip of your tongue will feel different than using the wide padded surface,” Tanner says. You can alternate which part you’re using, “and experiment with pressing and releasing around the [clitoris] area,” Dr. O’Reilly says.

Whilst using your other hand to finger her in exactly the way I’ve described before. So, take your time and really enjoy the experience. You may have an idea what some of the most obvious erogenous zones are, but get a training from the experts on the lesser-known hot spots for the ultimate experience. Whisper sweet nothings – Whether your partner enjoys the gentle brush of your breath against her ear, or the sound of dirty talk gets her going, this step can be used to titillate and tease. You’re about to learn everything you need to know to make your partner squirt.

You’ll know when you’ve found the right area because it feels rough, almost like the skin of an orange. There are many ways to combine cunnilingus with a vibrator and make your girl squirt. For starters, try tonguing her clit while simultaneously thrusting a vibrator into her. Alternatively, if you have a smaller, thinner vibrator you can stimulate her clitoris while you eat her out and lick her labia and vaginal opening. If your girl is stressed or preoccupied then it’s extremely unlikely that she’ll squirt during sex.

It certainly doesn’t get talked about much, but it’s a completely normal part of some women’s sexual experience. To squirt with a partner, begin the session with lots of sensation play. Let your partner explore the nooks and crannies of your body. Dr. Nan recommends paying special attention to the vulva and clitoris. By building arousal via clitoral stimulation, you will increase the storage of fluids in the urethral sponge which are expelled during squirting.

While commonly referred to as “female ejaculation” a more accurate term would be urethral or vulvar ejaculation, which would be more inclusive of the experience. I mean, if you look up the definition of ejaculation you’re going to find a lot of talk about penises and nothing about your vulva. Did you know that women can also ejaculate during sex? The phenomenon, also called “squirting,” is a popular topic when it comes to sexual health, and one that comes with a lot of questions.

Bouncing Spoon Position – This one is similar to the Pearly Gates position as you won’t be able to thrust much. This means that she can control how she feels you, whether it’s an in-and-out motion she wants, a grinding motion, or a combination of both. This way she can control the depth, speed, and pressure on her  G Spot more. He explains exactly what you need to do to make your partner squirt (step-by-step). If you can’t listen to it now, then I highly recommend that you save this podcast so you can listen to it later. As your fingers are pressed against her G Spot, you will be able to provide massive amounts of pressure to it.

Squirting is a powerful demonstration of what happens when a woman feels safe, empowered, and thoroughly turned on. So stop obsessing over the act of squirting as the end-all, be-all of pleasure. Focus instead on creating an environment of genuine connection and uninhibited exploration.